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A friend from long ago died last week at 93 years of age after a full life.

Jim died last week at 89 after a full life. He was a grade school principal in Gridley when I was a kid.

One of my co-worker’s mom died last week at 70 after a long battle with cancer.

A young soldier died last week in Afghanistan he was 24.

Brenton Bennett died last week in a motor cycle crash. He was just 52. He was a native Emporian and known and loved by many.

Death is the most curious human event because we have no control over when or how it will occur.

Many wonder: is death the end of human existence and consciousness, or do we continue in some other place or state of being?

Do we go to a place of everlasting reward or eternal torment?

Will we ever see deceased loved ones again?

For those who practice the Christian faith there is belief in an everlasting reward.

In John 3:16 it says: For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

For “believers” death on earth is made easier because we know there is life after death and we will see our loved one in a later life.

It’s hard for me to imagine how people who don’t believe handle losing a loved one with earthly death being so final.

At times like these my faith is truly appreciated.

I’m Steve Sauder.

Do you know what SOS stands for in the Emporia area?

          The official answer is Sexual Offense Services. An organization started in 1976 as an outgrowth of the Emporia chapter for the National Organization for Women. The underlying purpose was to offer services for rape victims.

          Today SOS is one of Emporia’s finest assets. The SOS vision has grown to be one seeking to end sexual and domestic violence, child abuse and neglect through service, education, advocacy, social change and promotion of justice.

          When I say one of Emporia’s finest assets its because not all other communities have an SOS and few if any have organizations as effective as our SOS.

          SOS has been a United Way agency since 1982, but funding remains their biggest challenge. At one time many grants were available, but they have dried up and creative fund raising like the concert and auction this past Saturday night are vital.

          SOS services cover a lot of areas.

They include CASA which stands for Court Appointed Special Advocates. Working in the 5thJudicial District CASA volunteers represent the best interest of children who need help.

In 1999 the Visitation and Exchange Center was opened. It is a safe place for children to be with their parents during supervised visits and exchanges. This Center often makes complicated situations simple.

Since 2002 SOS has operated in four additional counties – Chase, Coffey Greenwood and Morris- offering client services and developing volunteer bases in these areas. Osage County was added in 2004.

In 2012 Susan Moran retired after years of outstanding leadership as Executive Director of SOS. Fortunately Connie Cahoone was available to take over from Susan. Connie would be the first to tell you there was no replacing Susan, but Connie is off to a wonderful start.

The biggest disappointment about Saturday night was that YOU were not there. There was a nice group assembled for the auctions which raised over $10,000, but the turn out for the outstanding Callie Agler-Medrano concert was disappointing.

SOS is a wonderful asset, but more support is needed. Volunteers are needed. YOU are needed. SOS makes our community a better place to live. Please help.

This past year has provided some of the most amazing and surprising finishes in major events in our history.

          It starts with LaBron James making good on his promise to the city of Cleveland as he led his Cavaliers to an unreal comeback from a 3-1 deficit over the record setting Warriors with a triple double in game seven.

          In October the laughable Chicago Cubs ended over a hundred years of frustration as a roller-coaster of emotions spilled out in a game 7 that lasted almost five hours, featuring some wacky plays, a blown four-run lead, a 17-minute rain delay and some 10th inning heroics that sealed the deal. It too was after trailing in the series by a 3-1 margin to the Cleveland Indians!

          When talking about amazing and unexpected results the election of Donald Trump in November is a classic!

The 2017 Super Bowl will go down as one of the best title games in NFL history. The New England Patriots overcame a 25-point third-quarter deficit to knock off the Atlanta Falcons 34-28 in the first-ever overtime Super Bowl. Many think it's the greatest sports comeback in history.

With all those surprising events from the past 12 months in our history we were set up last week to observe the most amazing and surprising event ever in the world and that would be Easter.

The crucifixion and resurrection of Jesus Christ will always be without question the most amazing and surprising event in our history.

Can you imagine how this event might have been covered had there been cable news networks and social media back in those days?

          Scholars today cannot agree if Jesus predicted his own fate, but he was recorded as describing himself as the “dying and rising Messiah.”

          Jesus was outspoken in his time but news traveled so slowly only a few really knew of him. Had there been today’s coverage – well it’s hard to imagine what might have transpired.

          What would the Vegas odds have been on a man suggesting he would rise from the dead?

          The Good News is he did! Jesus rose and his resurrection gives us all hope for a new life and new beginning. That’s the message of Easter and while it’s doubtful you’ll be thinking of that during the Royal’s next amazing comeback, you can – because Easter gives everyone a second chance!

          I’m Steve Sauder

          This is Easter - the most important time of the year for Christians. The reason Easter is so important is because the events of this week give us the hope for eternal life; hope that our sins can be forgiven and our less than perfect lives can still have meaning.

          God sent his son Jesus to earth to teach us a better way to live. Even though his ministry lasted only three years it influenced billions of people. Eventually he paid for our sins with his life. He died on the cross, rose from the dead and gives each of us a way to return and live with God – thus the Easter celebration.

          For those who do not believe in God there is an ongoing debate. The movie “God is not Dead” is a wonderful tool to use if you question the existence of a higher power.

          As a Christian I believe Jesus Christ is the Son of God. Because of him death is not the end thus giving my life new hope.

          I often wonder what non believers are thinking when they attend a funeral.

          As a Christian I am comforted knowing eternal life is available for all who believe in God.

          This is a good time for those who have doubts, don’t understand or do not believe there is a higher power to seek answers. It would seem that having hope for eternal life is a far better place to be than simply being confused or mad about death.

          God does love this world and he does so much that he sacrificed his own son’s life to pay for our sins. That’s a gift we should not ignore.

          Hoping you have a meaningful Easter, I’m Steve Sauder.

Losing your president like Emporia State University is experiencing is never fun, but this ordeal is made easier when you are reaping the benefits from an outstanding effort from the person you are losing.

          Obviously Michael Shonrock has been an extraordinary leader. It has been my practice to answer that old question: “how are things in Emporia?” with – couldn’t be better because Emporia State is on a tear and the guy leading that has energized not only the University, but our entire community!

          What made Doctor Shonrock so special?

          I’ll mention three things, but there are many more.

          First he’s the best “friend raiser” ever. Michael never misses an opportunity to introduce himself and give away a business card. Little kids might be his favorite, but he’s made friends everywhere he’s gone including the Board of Regents and the legislature.

          There’s nothing phony about Shonrock. What you see is what you get. Unbridled enthusiasm, corny jokes (often repeated) he says “thank you” over and over and the people love it.

Why: Because he never, ever has to fake the sincerity.

          President Shonrock’s second great trait is as a “possibility thinker.” He never looks for a reason to say “no,” but looks first for ways to get things accomplished. Not rocket science – rather – let’s find a way!

          He will leave ESU with a new positive attitude, a shiny Master Plan, an updated strategic plan, new techniques and leaders better prepared to face challenges.

          Michael Shonrock also proved to be a Pied Piper. He brought amazingly talented people to EmporiaState like Provost David Cordle, Business Dean Kristie Ogilvie, V. P. for Administration and Physical Affairs Werner Golling, DenaSue Potestio, President of the ESU Foundation and others. Not only did the president get these folks hired they all live in Emporia!

Also under his leadership many campus leaders have become better at their jobs.

          Good presidents like good coaches are hard to find and harder to keep. We need leaders at ESU with the ability to move on and up. Shonrock fits that model.

          So, after feeling like I’d taken a punch in the gut like most you felt when you received the news of Shonrock’s new job I’m ready to celebrate his leadership and start working towards carrying on the tremendous changes he implemented.

          We are better off to have had Michael and lost him than to never have known him and we wish he and Karen all the best.

          It is a Great Day to be a Hornet! Stingers Up!

          I’m Steve Sauder

    4-12-16

          Just because the question has arisen - today the rules for recall of an elected official in Kansas are being shared. This information came from the Internet – ballotpedia.org.

Officials subject to recall

Chapter 25, Article 43 of Kansas state statutes defines two separate categories of elected officials that can be recalled: state officers and local officers. National officeholders and judicial officers are not subject to recall.[1]

       State officers are those persons holding the following positions: Governor, State Senator, State Representative, State Board of Education Member, Secretary of State, Attorney General, State Treasurer and Insurance Commissioner.

      

The Recall process

Grounds for recall

 

Conviction for a felony,

Misconduct in office,

       incompetence, or

       Failure to perform duties prescribed by law.

 

The Application for intent to recall

State officials

To launch a recall effort, supporters must submit the following:

       An application indicating the targeted official

       Statement of grounds for recall not to exceed 200 words

       List of 100 sponsors to circulate petition

       Signatures of registered voters equaling 10 percent of votes cast in the last election

       $100 fee[4]

The application is then submitted to the secretary of state's office and if accepted the recall effort has ninety days in which to collect signatures from 40% of the number that voted in 2014. If successful a state-wide recall election is scheduled within 60 to 90 days.

          0ver 848,000 votes were cast in the 2014 Kansas gubernatorial election, so you’d be looking at 85,000 valid signatures on the “Launch” petition and 340,000 signatures on the “Recall” petition.

          Dissatisfaction is running high with our state leadership but those are big numbers in a short amount of time. Existence of the Internet and vehicles like Face Book and Twitter could make a recall much easier, but if successful with say - Governor Brownback what would you get?

          Exactly – you get Lt. Governor Jeff Colyer, MD who has been nothing less than in lockstep with his boss!

          Guess we’d better hope the college presidency rumors are real.

I’m Steve Sauder and there’s something to think about.

The administration of Donald Trump is nearing 100 days. That’s about the same time since my last “Something to Think About.” Guess that makes talking about President Trump logical?

          It’s often said discussing leaders is interesting. To say that about our new President is of course a massive understatement.

          His style is different from any other president, so some say we should have expected disruption and some degree of chaos. One pundit said - who the President fires is more important than who he hires and failures and mistakes are an accepted part of any successful entrepreneur’s activities. Adding most new ventures have to “fake it until they make it” to succeed.

          President Trump takes all those ideas to the max and seems to have an inability to walk back or own any of his mistakes.

          I didn’t vote for him, but I’m certainly not rooting for him to fail.

          I see big problems for President Trump because he tends to exaggerate virtually every thing he talks about and his imagination is so out of proportion to reality it is alarming.

          Entrepreneurs often dream bigger than they can produce, but they also have an ability to walk back or tone down their rhetoric. Mr. Trump has yet to do either. As the questions get more difficult – i.e., Syria, North Korea, Russia and Isis he will need to fix this trait.

          Imagination was code for the truth in my childhood.

          My mom used to say “Stevie, I think you are letting your imagination run wild again!”

          What she meant was I was telling a fib. Her style allowed me to live with my misstatements, but also challenged me on their truthfulness.

          President Trump has a massive problem with the truth and more importantly it appears he doesn’t appear to understand this!

          The size of the crowd at his inauguration or the number of illegal votes cast in the election are not that important in the truth or fiction score, but dealing with Russia, Syria, North Korea and Isis are more than important and we need a leader we can believe.

          Things not true make our President easy prey for the media in a contest that makes both sides look silly!

          President Trump loves to ad lib “believe me.”  

Wow! Of all the stuff he says those 2 words are the most difficult for me to take.

To lead anything and especially the United States of America we must have a leader who we can “believe.”

Thus far Donald Trump has failed that test and with the difficulty of his mission getting more severe each minute he needs to change this immediately.

Please start telling the truth Sir, because we have no future without it!

I’m Steve Sauder

This is Easter week and this year my heart will be heavy knowing my friend Loren Martin lost his battle with cancer. His services are Monday. He asked me to say a few words. I am so honored.

Loren also asked one of his colleagues from Ek Real Estate to speak. Jeff tells me he’ll concentrate on Loren’s character. Guess that means I get to talk about Loren “the character.”

Don’t hold me to it, but I’m thinking maybe I’ll suggest Loren was like my favorite pair of shoes - easy to put on, comfortable and always available.

I was 15 when I met Coach Martin and about to be a sophomore football player at Emporia High. He was our new coach. He was playing golf with Don Ek. I watched him absolutely kill a golf ball and I thought “what a stud.” That thought has never left me.

Like most new shoes Coach had a little breakin’ in period. His three years as EHS’s football coach weren’t much fun. He inherited a very sad situation. We weren’t only little, we were slow! We played a killer schedule and the results weren’t good. I’m not sure Bear Bryant could have made us a team!

Coach resigned after three years and did other things including 4 great years and C of E’s baseball coach. His Presby’s represented District 10 in the NAIA national tournament.

Loren found his calling as a real estate agent and to say he was unique in that job is an understatement. He was known for his honestly and willingness to always assist his clients and co-workers in a positive and constructive manner. His career spanned over 30 years and I doubt he ever made an enemy.

Loren and Nanette were the classic couple. They met at KU and she says she wasn’t easily convinced to become a part of this football and baseball player’s life. Once she agreed though they became a couple you could easily use as a role model.

As shoes grow older they get scuffed a few times and require some polish, but good shoes are hard to find – that was Loren always interested and willing to help.

Loren had a lot of life experiences: Gifted college athlete, semi-pro baseball star, golfer, card player, KU fan, father, husband, Christian, coach, businessman and friend – the list is endless.

Despite the fact our football team wasn’t very successful I always called Loren “Coach.” That’s a term of endearment I reserve for special people. Rest in Peace – Coach.

I’m Steve Sauder

Remember being at a ballgame where the guy yelled, “get your program so you can know the players!”

          That’s kind of the situation we have in Kansas with the governor’s race to be decided in November of 2018.

          Last week’s headline read: Eighteen and Counting!

          The filing deadline is June 1, for Republicans and Democrats and August 6, for all others.

          The fees?  $2,207 without five thousand signatures. $670 with the signatures and Independent candidates must get the signatures.

          So far there are 11 Republicans, six democrats and an Independent that have filled out requirements to raise money. There are also 4 high school students and NO women.

          Democrats in the race so far are: House Leader Jim Ward; former Ag Secretary Joshua Svaty; ex-Wichita Mayor Carl Brewer; Dr. Arden Anderson: and salesman Robert Klingenberg.

          The R’s are: Lt. Governor Jeff Colyer; Secretary of State Kris Kobach; Insurance Commissioner Ken Selzer; oil company owner Wink Hartman; former state representatives Mark Hutton and Ed O’Malley; former Emporian Dr. Jim Barnett;  and businessman and evangelist Patrick Kucera.

          Running as an Independent is Topeka minister Richard Kloos with Greg Orman expected to be an Independent candidate too.

          Holy Toledo ! How do you tell the wolves from the sheep?

          Dr. Barnett has been working hard and has put out some interesting ideas to think about. Like:

          He told me he plans to be a One Term Governor thinking leading Kansas as it tries to get it’s financial act together over the next four years will not be compatible winning re-election. That’s refreshing!

          In Abilene last week Dr. Jim said something Republican candidates rarely say responding to a question about the role of government.

          He said, “It puts me out on a limb because typical Republican mantra on how to solve our problems is to cut government and cut taxes, and that is not going to work. Any gubernatorial candidate who will tell they will cut taxes to get out of this mess we are in is trying to pull the wool over your eyes.”

          Risky, but refreshing because given the mess Kansas is in – new Education funding starting around $600 million plus highway funds that have been borrowed, KPERS loans to repay etc., etc., etc………. taxes are going to rise and being truthful about this has my attention.

          How about yours?

          I’m Steve Sauder

          Meet Nina as described in a TIME magazine article this week.

          Great friends, prosperous neighborhood and close relationship with her parents. Like most 16 year olds Nina spends lots of her time on her smartphone. Unlike many of her friends Nina has never been targeted or bullied on social media.

          Seems like a pretty solid situation and a seemingly happy young lady – NOT!

          Nina suffers from depression so severe she recently attempted to take her own life.  Her therapist called it “body-image insecurity.”

          Nina’s mom was caught completely off guard with her daughter’s problems calling her “funny, athletic, smart and personable.”

          What mom didn’t know was Nina was spending hours in her room stalking models on Instagram. She stayed up late and developed an eating disorder because of her concern for how she looked. She said later she “didn’t totally want to be gone, she just wanted help and didn’t know how else to get it.”

          There is total agreement that “smartphones are having a profound impact on the way adolescents today communicate and spend their free time.”

          Consider these numbers from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services:

          Teenage depression has risen 60% between 2010 and 2016!

          Suicide-related thoughts are up 48% in kids using electronic devices more than 5 hours a day!

          One college professor said “The more we learn about kids and smartphones, the more we’re going to see limiting their exposure is a good idea.”

          Smartphones in hands of young kids absolutely have benefits, but we are also learning there are serious perils to be watched.

          TIME listed several ideas to consider:

1.     No smartphones in the bedroom.

2.     Utilize available Firewalls and Data cutoffs

3.     Create a contract between parents and kids for smartphone usage.

4.     Model healthy device behaviors! Kids do copy their parents.

5.     And finally – how about a flip phone for Junior?

Seems like a big old red flag to me. Smartphones are great, but hidden in their use can be major problems.

Look Out!

          I’m Steve Sauder

 

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