The annual Take Back the Night event, organized by SOS Inc., brought many messages to those in attendance, including a message of empowerment for victims to “take back their stories.”
That was a key message from featured speaker and author Susan Fowler, who is known for her book “Whistleblower,” which detailed sexual harassment she suffered while employed at Uber. Fowler respectfully declined a recorded interview with local media Thursday evening; however, during her powerful presentation, she stated, “Taking back our own stories is what matters.”
She added, “When someone stands up and says this is what happens to me, that’s power and that’s what people are afraid of. Us saying what happened.” Fowler’s words connected with the audience in attendance, including SOS Executive Director Mickey Edwards, who, during an interview with KVOE News, stated she hopes Fowler and others who have the courage to step forward and share their stories create a ripple effect of confidence and courage in others.
Also speaking during Thursday’s event was Newman Regional Health SANE (Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner) Program Coordinator and SOS board member Diana Moore. SANE nurses play an important role in the stories of victims as they are specially trained individuals qualified to provide comprehensive, trauma-informed, patient-centered care to survivors of sexual assault.
Moore explained SANE nurses are where health and law meet, clarifying that through their exams, should a victim agree to one, they can find and collect important evidence that can make a significant difference in sexual assault cases. Noting how difficult it can be for some to come forward after being assaulted due to stigma and possible shame, Moore says she always shares the same message with anyone who comes through her department’s doors saying, “This isn’t my favorite way to meet you, but I am happy you are here.”
When asked her ultimate desire for any individual she serves or anyone who has been victimized in the past, Moore says she simply wants to help them find “justice.”
Take Back the Night is an international event held in more than 30 countries that emphasizes the importance of support for victims of sexual assault, relationship and domestic violence and abuse in all forms. In addition to the featured speakers on Thursday evening, SOS representatives also had a time of sharing where individuals who have been affected by these issues in any way could share their messages.
The event, as always, came as part of sexual assault awareness month. If you or someone you know has been a victim of abuse or assault, SOS has a 24/7 helpline, 800-825-1295, and also offers connections for advocacy and therapy to help victims.
SOS representatives can also attend medical appointments, law enforcement meetings and court hearings if requested.
